This week we read two passages from different authors regarding stigmas relating to race. In both stories, the characters' races make them appear threatening to others. Sherman Alexie takes advantage of this by purposely conveying fear in a 711 clerk. Brent Staples discusses his frustration with those who are scared of him because of his physical traits. Which approach to dealing with stereotypes is better?
In my life, stereotypes can often be offensive. I am Asian, and I go to Troy High, so one can imagine that I have heard remarks of inhuman math skills and unique eye shape quite often. But for me, stereotypes that are geared toward my Asian heritage often provide opportunities for me to prove other wrong, which for me can be quite satisfying. For example, many people have approached me in my classes and have said, "Hey Eric, you're Asian. Help me with this problem." This common stereotype that I encounter often gives me the opportunity to say something like, "No. I'm dumb. Just because I'm Asian doesn't mean that I'm a genius." Then I walk away and observe their bewilderment. Other times people assume that because I am Asian I am afraid of talking to non-Asians. However, those who know me well know that I can ramble as much as I want if my intent is to annoy people. This often comes in handy. I just talk and talk and talk, and by the times I am finished speaking I can tell some are sorry for accepting a common stereotype. The one thing that can compensate for my anger with those who readily accept racial stereotypes is the satisfaction that I get from proving them wrong.
Are stereotypes actually assets though? I agree that proving stereotypes wrong is really satisfying, but outside of feeling satisfied do they actually benefit you?
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DeleteThanks for bringing up that question! To clarify, stereotypes to me are NOT an asset, but proving others wrong and teaching them to ditch racial stigmas is what I perceive as beneficial. I see how my title can be misleading. Thanks :)
Eric we used the same comic! Twinsiessss. I can completely relate to the "surprise, I don't get this math problem either" thing. Thanks for sharing!
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I can relate to the proving stereotypes wrong part. "Oh you're white, why are you in this class" is implied by the looks I get and the words I hear. Because this is not a harmful stereotype, unlike some that you may face, I find great pride and achievement when I can prove these kids wrong.
ReplyDeleteThis post is so true and very entertaining to read. I like the part about "unique eye shape" a lot. Although I must say...I am nowhere near as successful in defying racial stereotypes as you are. Good job!
ReplyDeleteThis post is very relatable in the sense that stereotypes can be offensive. Also, I love the comic!
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